Is an illusion that they sell
At all the places
Telling you to try this and that because surely it will fill in all the holes you offer to the world
What if you ask them if these holes could be of any use instead?
What would they say?
Would they encourage you to cover it all aggressively because holes are a weakness to your security and peace of mine. Maybe and maybe they are right.
Ask the holes why they show up though and will they answer the same?
Or will they just be holes asking for nothing but gentle mending and care.